Leadership Development Carnival
It’s my pleasure to host this month’s Leadership Development Carnival, sponsored by Weaving Influence. The Leadership Development Carnival is a monthly collection of insights from top thought leaders...
View ArticleYour Return-to-Office Strategy Is an Opportunity to Build Trust With Employees
Enjoy this article that was recently published in Ignite!, the newsletter of The Ken Blanchard Companies. I was interviewed about the opportunity to build trust as organizations develop plans to return...
View ArticleThe 4 Skills That Allow Your Team to Discuss The Most Difficult Issues
In my last two articles, I’ve explored the concept of a team’s Conversational Capacity®. Conversational capacity is the ability to have open, balanced, non-defensive dialogue about tough subjects and...
View ArticleThe 2 Behaviors That Sabotage Team Communication
In my previous article I wrote about the conversational “sweet spot” that unlocks team performance. The sweet spot is defined as the balance of candor and curiosity in team discussions. It’s a...
View ArticleThe 2 Factors That Drive Powerful and Productive Team Conversations
It’s ok, you can admit it. We’ve all been there. Working in teams can be incredibly frustrating. Whether it was in school, work, or a community organization, you’ve probably had a dysfunctional team...
View ArticleShow and Tell – A Game Leaders Need to Play
Did you ever play the game Show and Tell when you were in elementary school? It wasn’t really a game in the traditional sense, but more like story-time or a group activity to help the whole class learn...
View ArticleThe 4 Behaviors Guaranteed to Destroy Relationships
Photo by Lukas on Pexels.com Dr. John Gottman is world-renowned for his work on marital stability and is one of the top thought leaders in the field of marital therapy and psychology. Much of his...
View Article4 Principles for Building Trust in a VUCA World
Volatility, Uncertainty, Complexity, and Ambiguity…over the last several years, the term VUCA has gained momentum in everyday life as a way to describe the fast-changing, chaotic, and unpredictable...
View Article3 Reasons to Apologize Even if You’ve Done Nothing Wrong
“I’m not going to apologize because I didn’t do anything wrong!” I remember my kids uttering that phrase a number of times when they were young, and I’ve also heard it from adults in the workplace more...
View ArticleHow To Tell Someone You Don’t Trust Them Without Destroying The Relationship
Addressing low trust in a relationship is a challenging issue. As soon as the “t” word—trust—is mentioned, emotions start to rise, defensiveness climbs, and people begin to feel uneasy about where the...
View ArticleThe Leader is the Topic of Dinner Conversation – What is Your Team Saying...
As a leader, have you ever considered that you are often the topic of dinner conversations of your employees? Think about it for a second in relation to your own life. How often do you find yourself...
View Article5 Tips for Handling Delicate Conversations
One of the certainties of managerial life is there will be occasions where you need to have a delicate conversation with someone. No matter if it’s an employee, colleague, or vendor, the thought of...
View ArticleTop 7 Posts in 2015: Why it’s Hard to Trust People, Good Bosses vs. Bad...
As I reflect back on 2015, it’s incredible to consider this is the fifth year of the Leading with Trust blog. In some respects it seems like just a few months ago that I started writing about the...
View Article6 Causes and Cures for Defensiveness In Relationships
Your defensiveness is killing your relationships and you don’t even realize it. What? Me being defensive? I’m not defensive! YOU’RE the one that’s always defensive! That’s a classic defensive response...
View ArticleLeaders – When Is The Last Time You Noticed?
I have to admit, it’s easy for me not to notice. I get focused on my own goals and priorities and everything else around me seems to fade from view. That focused attention is a good thing when I need...
View ArticleThe 10 Commandments of Communication to Build Trust
The way we communicate with others is a primary way we build trust. Along with specific behaviors and actions, communication serves as the vehicle for building trust in relationships. What we say, how...
View ArticleDo You Manage Conflict or Does It Manage You? 5 Strategies for Success
Conflict gets a bad rap. Most people tend to view conflict as a bad thing, automatically assuming it has to be an adversarial win or lose situation. The reality is that conflict is inevitable in...
View ArticleSurviving Friendly Fire: 8 Tips for Dealing with Unfair Criticism
Sooner or later…sooner if you’re in a leadership position…you will get wounded by “friendly fire”— unfair criticism from a boss or colleague. Friendly fire comes in all shapes and sizes. Sometimes it...
View ArticleDefensiveness Is Killing Your Relationships – How To Recognize It and What To...
Your defensiveness is killing your relationships and you don’t even realize it. What? Me being defensive? I’m not defensive! YOU’RE the one that’s always defensive! That’s a classic defensive response...
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